F is for Facebook
So this week I have chosen Facebook as my subject. What has Facebook to do with Pagan’s? I hear you ask … Well in this time of electronic media dominating our lives Facebook is now a tool of the 21st Century not just a timewaster.
My views on Facebook and what it is doing to society is this:
I believe Facebook is turning society into a very antisocial, secluded, non committal place. The founder of Facebook has pulled off one of the biggest coup in the history of man. Mark Zuckerberg lived in a world where he wasn’t accepted by the vast majority of peers, as an opportunistic enterprising young mind, he latched onto an idea that would change the world, change society as we know it. He was fully aware of the attraction his world would have, preyed on the insecurities of man and pulled off the biggest challenge imaginable. Instead of trying to fit in with the world, he bought the world to him. He created this little place where people could gather, share their thoughts and dreams, their lows where they could extract support from ‘friends’. A place where they could ‘Like’ ‘friend’ ‘share’ ‘form exclusive groups’ and have a whole life. In a society where instant gratification is paramount Mark knew Facebook would satisfy this, albeit on a superficial level and for a fleeting moment thereby drawing people back into the facebook world, I say he played on man’s insecurities because he knows, most people just want to be accepted, seek approval, liked and obviously loved, people want to feel like they are worthy and validated and Facebook for all intents and purposes does this. BUT … and its a big but, Facebook also creates a place where people can have relationships at arm’s length, where people can fein approval, like and even love with the click of a button, where people can keep in touch without actually being in touch, where people feel in control of who they speak to, when and most importantly just how much they will give their fellow human being in ways of support. It is a very superficial place, filled with false validity, false friends. Of course Facebook when used for ‘Good’ can be wonderful, and in the beginning we all believe how great it is, what a wonderful little world Mark has created, how brilliant is his mind, when all the while, underneath that what he has created is really a sleeping monster that claws at our dreams, undermines our society at its very core, changes our reality without us even knowing what is happening. It is the Boiling Frog Syndrome … for those unaware of what that is, if you were to place a frog in boiling water, of course it would understand that the water is hot and jump out immediately, however if you place a frog in cold water and slowly bring it to the boil on the stove top, by the time the frog realises the water is hot and he is being cooked it is too late for him to jump out, and that my friends is what Facebook is all about, slowly cooking society as we know it, changing it, while we embrace the change and integrate it into our lives and before we know it we are all antisocial beings, sitting behind a computer screen with no real attachments to other people except for our Facebook ‘Likes’. Bullying and stalkers are worshiping Facebook, what a great tool for them to use to prey on their victims, how easy for them to find victims, and supporters. People can be such sheep when it comes to being accepted, and often will indulge in negative behaviours that they would never do face to face, Peer group pressure on Facebook is unbelievable for our Youth of today. It is a very delicate balance to not overstep the mark and err on the side of antisocial, unfortunately for most, Facebook pushes that boundary and deceitfully, underhandedly, boiling frog’ly we follow.
With all this negativity you might be wondering why I am on Facebook at all … well I also believe there is good out there in Facebook World and of course when used for ‘Good’ Facebook can be a fantastic networking tool, and to get to the point of how Facebook relates to Pagans, I believe that the benefit we get from having Facebook and being able to network, share information, beliefs, rituals, opinions etc all make for better people. A greater understanding of the path we have chosen.
This … The Pagan Blog Project … this is very much a ‘Good’ side of Facebook, in fact I would go as far as to say it is a fantastic use of facebook, and I believe that it will only enhance the Path I have chosen, as it will for everyone, and I can’t thank Rowan enough for creating this project, I would just like to believe that we could all be aware of the traps that Facebook holds …
Once just once everyday, have a real conversation with a real person, face to face and remember Society will fall apart, crumble, be destroyed if we lose the art of being social, personable and having genuine interactive real live relationships.
F is for Falsebook, errr sorry Facebook …. don’t be a boiling frog!